Remember me

 

Beloved, have you ever felt that God has forgotten all about you? It seems like ages since you’ve been calling and crying out for help, according to Isaiah 58:9 but you haven’t received an answer as Isaiah promised.

But that verse comes with a caveat; have you done everything that you were supposed to do? Have you been obedient?

Here’s what Isaiah 58:9 (NIV) says,

Then you will call, and the Lord will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I. “If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk,

And the “ifs” continue for a few more verses and it’s only after the “ifs” that the “thens” are fulfilled.

We are always asking God for this and that but aren’t always willing to do our part and then we wonder, “Doesn’t God remember me?”

We pray, Remember me, Lord, when you show favor to your people (Psalm 106:4 NIV) yet you refuse to do His will, you refuse to forgive, you refuse to repent, you refuse to turn the other cheek, you refuse to give up your sexual misconduct, you refuse to let go of whatever God has been telling you to release, you refuse and refuse and refuse.

You find it hard to show others favour but you want God to show you favour? You won’t even give way to other drivers on the road for goodness sake.

You refuse to follow the “Golden Rule” that I’m sure you’ve heard time and time again since childhood, from your mom or grandmother but probably did not realize that it’s something that Jesus said,

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you (Matthew 7:12 NIV)

Despite your behaviour, God has not forgotten you, He certainly remembers you, after all He has engraved you on the palms of [His] hands (read Isaiah 49:14-16). However, before God gives to you, He is waiting for you to give to Him.

God is waiting for you to give Him your will and your way in exchange for His will and His way. God is waiting for you to give Him your worries and anxieties (see 1 Peter 5:7).

In 1 Samuel, we are told of a woman named Hannah who in her desperation to have a child, a son, made a promise to God,

“Lord Almighty, if you will only look on your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life, and no razor will ever be used on his head.” (1 Samuel 1:11 NIV)

And God remembered Hannah (also v. 19) and her son Samuel grew up in God’s presence (1 Samuel 2:21).

You can’t be asking God to give to you and not be willing to give back to God no matter what it may be.

When my own children were born, I gave them back to God, not by taking them to live with the priest as Hannah did, but I understood that they belonged to God.

Beloved, if you want God to remember you when you pray, you must remember Him for who He is and not only for what He can give you.

Do not remember the sins of my youth and my rebellious ways; according to your love remember me, for you, Lord, are good. (Psalm 25:7 NIV)

Remember God for His love.

“Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” (Luke 23:42 NIV)

Remember God for His forgiveness.

Remember me for this also, my God, and show mercy to me according to your great love. (Nehemiah 13:22 NIV)

Remember God for His mercy.

Lord, you understand; remember me and care for me. (Jeremiah 15:15 NIV)

Remember God for His care.

O my God, [earnestly] remember me for good and imprint me [on Your heart]! (Nehemiah 13:31 AMPC)

Remember God for His goodness.

The same God who remembered Noah and Sarah and Rachel and Joseph and Hannah and Daniel and Job and the thief on a cross and Cornelius, is the same God who remembers you and me.

Amen †

 

Shelley Johnson “Remember me” ©2026 May 18, 2026

 

 

 

 

 

What about Bithiah?

 

Before we answer the question of Bithiah, we need to ask: What about Mered? Because the answer to Mered will partially answer the question of Bithiah.

Mered appears in the first book of Chronicles, in chapter 4 verse 17, as it is written,

The sons of Ezrah:

Jether, Mered, Epher and Jalon. (NIV) 

Mered descended from the tribe of Judah (v 1) and had two wives. One, an unnamed Judean woman and the other was Bithiah.

(His wife from the tribe of Judah gave birth to Jered the father of Gedor, Heber the father of Soko, and Jekuthiel the father of Zanoah.) These were the children of Pharaoh’s daughter Bithiah, whom Mered had married. – 1 Chronicles 4:18 (NIV)

Long story short…

According to the above verse, Bithiah was Pharaoh’s daughter, therefore she was an Egyptian but no ordinary Egyptian, Bithiah was royalty.

Jewish tradition suggests that Bithiah was the one who discovered the baby Moses among the reeds in the Nile however, in Exodus, Pharaoh’s daughter is not named.

Bithiah, an Egyptian princess whose name means “daughter of God”, married a Hebrew who would have undoubtedly worshipped God.

Was Bithiah’s naming prophetic, a sign of her change of allegiance from the idolatrous worship of the gods of Egypt to the God of the Hebrews? We can only speculate, for the bible does not say, so we do not know and will never know because Bithiah’s biblical story ends as quickly as it begins.

Something else we do not know, is why only one of Mered’s wives was named, but there is something to be learnt from his marriage to Bithiah.

This was a marriage not just between two people, it was a marriage between two countries, two very different cultures and two drastically different religious beliefs.

Theirs was like so many marriages these days where Christians marry non-Christians. I know of several couples like this and have often wondered but never asked for details on how it works.

For Bithiah, it appears that she adopted her husband’s culture and religion, as 1 Chronicles 4:17 (NIV) tells us that their children bore Hebrew names, Miriam, Shammai and Ishbah.

Some changes in life bring changes in allegiance. For Bithiah, her Egyptian heritage was changed to the Jewish way of life, so much so that she is included in the genealogy of Judah.

It wasn’t too long ago that persons who married Roman Catholics were required to leave their denomination and join the Roman Catholic church or, failing that, raise their children in the faith. Is this still a requirement?

Many years ago, when I got married to a Catholic, he expected that we would raise whatever children we would have as Roman Catholics. I am not Roman Catholic and as an active member of the denomination to which I belonged, refused. This became an issue for us as a newly married couple but after discussion and prayer, we came to a decision that worked for both of us and the two children that we eventually had.

In this instance both people belong to the Christian faith, but as more and more couples mix cultures and religions through marriage, important decisions must be made even before their lives are joined.

Questions concerning worship must be answered. The Word of God speaks of being unequally yoked.

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers [do not make mismated alliances with them or come under a different yoke with them, inconsistent with your faith]. – 2 Corinthians 6:14 (AMPC)

Mismatched spiritual alliances can become extremely complicated. When fundamentally different religious perspectives are combined, friction can ensue and couples and families are torn apart especially if children are involved. Which religion the children follow becomes a bone of contention.

How is this reconciled?

As Christians, our allegiance is to God through Jesus Christ our Saviour. So, if we find ourselves in such a situation, we must take it to God in earnest prayer even before it escalates, to ask for His guidance.

Beloved, life happens and it’s not impossible to find yourself in a conflicting position as far as love and marriage and raising children are concerned. These concerns must be addressed before you take the proverbial plunge; decisions that will affect your individual life as well as your spiritual life must be taken into account.

Continue to worship God with heart, mind, soul and strength and to trust Him to lead you in the way you must go.

Amen †

Shelley Johnson “What about Bithiah?” ©2026 May 17, 2026

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Misconceptions

 

As we journey along this spiritual road, sometimes we read things into Scripture that are not really there and miss things that are there. A great many times we simply take another’s word about what the Word says without checking for ourselves.

I recall an incident, several years ago in Bible study where the minister of the church who was leading the session claimed that at some time during the Exodus, God left Moses. Now, those who were acquainted with the verse to which he referred, were taken aback but rather than speak up, remained silent (me included), after all this was the theological expert so perhaps, he knew something the rest of us did not. Clearly it was a gross misinterpretation on his part.

But this poses a real danger in that, such misconceptions lead to wrong understanding of God’s Word and coming from the religious leader may prove catastrophic for his or her listeners as they carry forward that incorrect belief.

A friend once said to me, “As the bible says, cleanliness is next to godliness”. He truly believed this to be biblical and over the years I’ve come to realize that he was not alone; as a friend, I could not leave him in his ignorance. That adage, even though it sounds as if it should be introduced by quoting book, chapter and verse, is not in the bible.

Persons continue to confidently misquote 1 Timothy 6:10, when they say, “Money is the root of evil”. To his young apprentice, Apostle Paul wrote,

For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils.

We must get into the habit of checking the bible to make sure that it actually says what we think it does or what someone else says is in it.

Some misconceptions arise from misunderstanding the Word, from incorrect interpretations, like what happened at that bible study session and in some instances, from poor translations.

Yet another type of misconception can occur when what is found in the bible is taken out of the bible and attributed to some other source. For instance, another friend thought that the Lord’s prayer (see Matthew 6:5-15) was, as she put it, “made up by the Catholics”.

I’m starting to think that I need new friends.

Careful reading and study of the bible under proper spiritual guidance will help to avoid our being misled. Don’t ever just take anything carte blanche as that is a recipe for misinformation. Not because it sounds scriptural means it is.

The author of 1 John 4:1 (NRSVUE) advises,

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.

Test and examine every spirit, every teacher, every preacher, every expert, every blog writer and podcaster. Here’s the litmus test,

This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God – 1 John 4:2 (NIV)

Think, research, study and dig deep; let God, who inspired the Word, guide you by His Spirit (see 2 Peter 1:21),

All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. – 2 Timothy 3:16 (NLT)

Utilising different translations, bible dictionaries and other books in conjunction with your bible, can be quite helpful. But even in this you must depend on the Holy Spirit’s guidance.

Test all things; hold fast what is good. – 1 Thessalonians 5:21 (NKJV)

Another misconception has to do with the number of wise men that came to Bethlehem to visit Jesus as an infant. It is believed that there were only three wise men.

This probably stems from the gifts that they brought with them, gold, frankincense and myrrh but the bible neither gives us number nor names. Matthew 2:1 (ESV) simply says,

Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the east came to Jerusalem

Also, Jesus was not a baby but may have been closer to two years old (see Matthew 2:27). Sorry to burst your bubble.

And the last misconception I’ll draw to your attention concerns Jesus’ disciples. Many people believe that there were only twelve but read the following verses from the Gospel of Luke.

Luke 9:1-2 (ESV)

And he called the twelve together and gave them power and authority over all demons and to cure diseases, and he sent them out to proclaim the kingdom of God and to heal.

Luke 10:1 (ESV)

After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them on ahead of him, two by two, into every town and place where he himself was about to go.

We can say that the twelve were Jesus’ inner circle, but He had a broader band of disciples, not only that but here’s a secret…Jesus had female disciples too.

Mary, Martha’s sister, is a prime example; she sat at Jesus’ feet (see Luke 10:38-39) – that was the traditional position or posture of a disciple. They would sit at their Rabbi’s feet, to listen to his teachings. Jesus was Mary’s Rabbi, her Teacher and she, His disciple.

Beloved, there are many biblical misconceptions swirling around, I have just pointed out a few to give your deep dive a kick-start.

I encourage you to really study the Word so that you may develop a better understanding and won’t have to solely depend on others. Keep in mind that adherence to correct beliefs reinforces your faith.

May Spirit guide you and bless you along the way.  

Amen †

 

Shelley Johnson “Misconceptions” ©2026 May 16, 2026

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The gates of Hades

 

It was a pivotal moment in time when, in Caesarea Philippi, Jesus asked His disciples,

“Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” – Matthew 16:13 (NLT)

They replied, John the Baptist, Elijah, Jeremiah or one of the prophets. Then Jesus asked,

“But who do you say I am?” – Matthew 16:15 (NLT)

Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” (v 16)

Jesus, responding to Peter said,

“You are blessed, Simon son of John, because my Father in heaven has revealed this to you. You did not learn this from any human being.” (v 17)

Where this conversation was held is not without significance. Caesarea Philippi lay on the southern slopes of Mount Hebron; an ancient city which was the epicentre of worship of Pan, the heathen god of fertility. Herod the Great’s son Philip enlarged the city and gave it its name in honour of the Caesar, the so-called son of god.

This location was the place where persons came to make sacrifices to Pan and perform all sorts of diabolical fertility rituals and, it was the site of a unique feature – a large, cavernous grotto, believed to be the entrance to the underworld called the gates of Hades.

 It was at this secluded spot, where the four sources of the Jordan and nearby streams united, that Jesus chose to begin preparing His disciples for His approaching suffering, death and resurrection.

This was not a place that any God-fearing Jewish man or woman would voluntarily visit but this is where Jesus purposely took His disciples.

The gates of Hades represented an evil stronghold, so why did Jesus choose this location? Jesus wanted His disciples to have a visual point of reference for what He was about to tell them.

Jesus had started a conversation; He asked two pertinent questions. The first was answered by all the disciples but the answer to the second, and more important, was divinely revealed to Peter.

In this place, where people came to worship a false god and the Caesar, as the son of god, Peter, through divine revelation correctly identifies Jesus as, the Son of the living God.

In the midst of falsehood, truth prevailed. Then Jesus says to Peter,

And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it. – Matthew 16:18 (NRSVUE)

Jesus renames Peter, calling him Petros which means rock or bedrock and indeed this was an important time for Peter, but it held even greater significance.

You see, we have always been led to believe that this pivotal moment was purely about Peter being the rock or foundation of the church but looking at this entire passage in Matthew 16:13-20, there is more to be observed.

Taking a closer look at the specific location; the gates of Hades was a grotto carved deep into an enormous mountainous rock. Jesus was telling His disciples then and us now that the gates of evil are not strong enough to hold His Church back, the gates shall never be victorious over His Church.

The Kingdom of God is above all evil strongholds!

In the first century, people were placing their hopes in the gates of Hades, and even today, some people still place their hopes in all sorts of things other than Jesus, and they are being torn apart.

That day, Jesus didn’t only give Peter a new name, He gave Him the keys of the Kingdom of heaven, putting power in Peter’s hands and charging him with taking the mission to the ends of the earth and we, as Christians, are gifted and charged with the same.

”I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” (v 19)

Beloved, where are there gates of Hades around you or in your own life? Places of sin and suffering, pain and sickness, hardships and challenges, distress and hopelessness, situations that are tearing individuals and families apart.

We, the Church, have been given the keys, authority and power to overcome the gates of Hades but it seems that we don’t realize that. Our focus has shifted; we have become too fixated on the what and not on Who and the why. It’s all about the brick and mortar and the manmade traditions and the mission has been almost aborted.

Jesus has built His Church on the foundation, the bedrock of Who He is, the Son of the Living God and as long as we remember that, then the gates of Hades shall not prevail against His Church.

Amen †

Shelley Johnson “The gates of Hades” ©2026 May 15, 2026

 

 

Intentions and Motives

 

Photo courtesy Chionsu Barclay

Throughout the bible, in both the Old and New Testaments, passages can be found which speak of intentions and motives. That tells us that our intentions and motives are of great concern to God and should be equally concerning to us.

If those intentions are godly and those motives are good, then our lives will be aligned with love and to be so aligned is essential to living fulfilling lives. However, if our intentions and motives stem from a place of selfishness, then we are treading the line of defilement.

In the gospel of Mark 7:20, 21& 23 (ESV) Jesus tells us, “What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts…All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.”

Understand that our choices, actions and words, are all reflections of what is happening in our hearts; not the physical blood-pumping organ but a deeper place within us. The intentions and motives behind every choice we make, every action we take and everything we say reveal the core of our character.

Therefore, we must, as Proverbs 4:23 (NLT) tells us, guard our hearts above all else. The reason being that it determines the course of our lives. Our intentions and motives which emanate from within us, not only determine the course of our lives but also impact the lives of those around us.

All of us, Christian and non-Christian alike, tend to act one way in front of others but have different intentions and motives behind our actions. I have seen persons acting like the best Christian, pious and humble, in church on a Sunday but completely different on a Wednesday; they put on a religious false front, a performance, for the benefit of other churchgoers.

People may be pure in their own eyes, but the Lord examines their motives. (Proverbs 16:2 NLT)

The very first example of a religious false front is seen after Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit when they sewed fig leaves together (see Genesis 3:7-10) and it’s sad that the religious covering is still being utilised today. But just as God saw through Adam and Eve’s futile attempts, He sees through ours. God sees through everything; He sees straight into our hearts past any religious performances.

For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart. (1 Samuel 16:7 ESV)

We cannot hide from God, especially via dead works. The sewing of fig leaves was the first religious act and as with every religious performance since then, it does not work.

Don’t you know that God is omniscient? There’s absolutely no hiding place from His presence (see Psalm 139).

It’s clearly written in Hebrews 4:13 (ERV),

Nothing in all the world can be hidden from God. He can clearly see all things. Everything is open before him.

All our intentions and motives, good or bad, honourable or not, are laid bare before God. He knows all our thoughts and desires (1 Chronicles 28:9 GNT). We are open books to God; even from a distance He knows what we’re thinking (ref. Psalm 139:2 MSG).

Keep in mind that, the Lord searches all hearts and examines secret motives and He gives all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve (ref. Jeremiah 17:10 NLT). Even our good actions can be driven by unhealthy intentions and motives.

You and I must take a closer and honest look at why we do what we do. We may find that our intentions and motives are rooted in a need to be in control or pride or a yearning for approval.

Beloved, while you may see yourself as good and believe that your actions are justified, God knows what is truly going on inside you and any great spiritual work that’s to be done in your life is God’s to do. The choice to seek transformation lies squarely in your lap. Your ultimate goal must be your emergence into a life that is wholly God-centered, focused on doing right because it is the right thing to do.

Living with good intentions and motives gives you a sense of peace, love, fulfilment and brings you to a place of genuine care and sincerity.

And now may the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart be pleasing to God (ref. Psalm 19:14).

Amen †

Shelley Johnson “Intentions and Motives” ©2026 May 14, 2026

 

What about Eglah?

There are women in the bible, protagonists from whom great lessons are learnt but whose names remain unknown and then there are other women who are named but have done little to nothing other than being mentioned. Enter Eglah, she belongs to the latter list.

Why was Eglah mentioned? What was her role in the scheme of things? How has she or does she impact our lives?

Long story extremely short…

Eglah’s name appears in 2 Samuel 3:5,

and the sixth, Ithream, of Eglah, David's wife. These were born to David in Hebron. (ESV)

and again in 1 Chronicles 3:3 which gives us the same information,

the fifth, Shephatiah, by Abital; the sixth, Ithream, by his wife Eglah (ESV)

So now we know for sure that Eglah was David’s wife and the mother of his sixth and last son born in Hebron. That’s it.

But there must be more since nothing in God’s Word is without significance.

You see, Jesus the Messiah came from the lineage of David, the second king of Israel and one of the most commanding figures in the Old Testament.

God was building David’s house and establishing his dynasty therefore the names of those involved were important, even if their roles were not expanded.

Shortly after the death of Saul, David’s forces advanced into Hebron where David was declared king over Judah.

And it was in Hebron that David solidified his kingship, established political bonds and expanded his family. All of David’s actions were calculated and his marriages, strategic, as they strengthened his alliances.

We may not know much about Eglah but her being named in the narrative of king David’s descendants simply highlights the part she played in the king’s legacy.

Beloved, there are times when you may not be named, or known only as a member of your family, like my younger cousin, the middle child of three, who says, “Nobody knows me.”

That is how she feels, but that isn’t how we feel about her. We all know her and love her dearly but because she has lived abroad for many years, we seldom interact with her.

Her absence has not devalued her in any way whatsoever, she is a cherished and valued part of the whole.

Do you feel as she does? Unknown, overlooked perhaps? Are you, like Eglah, mentioned only as the wife of or mother of?

Eglah was an integral part of the whole; her role in David’s legacy was an important one in the establishment of the Davidic Covenant (see Psalm 132:12 and 1 Chronicles 17:11-14). God’s covenant with David mediated salvation for all, which began in the Old Testament and was accomplished in the New Testament of Jesus Christ.

“Come to me with your ears wide open. Listen, and you will find life. I will make an everlasting covenant with you. I will give you all the unfailing love I promised to David.” – Isaiah 55:3 (NLT)

“I, Jesus, have sent my angel to testify to you about these things for the churches. I am the root and the descendant of David, the bright morning star.” – Revelation 22:16 (NIV)

Eglah’s mention may not have been memorable, but her role was noteworthy, for she contributed to the bigger picture of salvation as adding to David’s line of descendants, highlighting the value and significance of family in God’s redemptive plan.

Beloved, as Eglah was, you are special to God, created as a noteworthy contributor to God’s plan of redemption, here on this earth for such a time as this.

Amen †

 

Shelley Johnson “What about Eglah?” ©2026 May 13, 2026

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Goodness of God

 

“I have seen the goodness of God

I bear witness to what He can do

My life has been touched by His rod

All He has done for me He will do for you”

(the chorus of “The Goodness of God” lyrics by Shelley Johnson)

God is good all the time, and all the time, God is good.

Indeed, He is good, for that is who God is. God’s goodness is unquestionable. Everything God does and everything God gives is good and for good.

If you then, evil (sinful by nature) as you are, know how to give good and advantageous gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven [perfect as He is] give what is good and advantageous to those who keep on asking Him. – Matthew 7:11 (AMP)

God wants all of us, His children, created in His image and likeness (see Genesis 1:26), to get back to that state of being where we produce “good” (see Galatians 5:22) so that we do not perish.

And already the axe [of God’s judgment] is swinging toward the root of the trees; therefore every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. – Matthew 3:10 (AMP)

Mankind, originally created good – God saw everything that He had made, and behold, it was very good and He validated it completely (Genesis 1:31 AMP) – saw a disruption in our spiritual imagery and moral likeness after the fall of Adam which introduced the disorder, the moral degradation, the spiritual rebellion, the evil and the sin that are now prevalent throughout His very good creation.

Even though the nature of God’s creation was infected, His nature remains intact as He can be nothing else but good.

God is so good that immediately after the fall, the restoration of man began. No better evidence of God’s goodness can be found but, in the incarnation, the atoning death, the resurrection and Pentecost, and His goodness towards us continues to this day.

I am sure that you have seen God’s goodness in your life and can bear witnessed to what He can do.

But, we are prone to forgetting the good because we tend to focus on the bad but keep in mind always that even though you may be going through a rough patch, God [who is deeply concerned about us] causes all things to work together [as a plan] for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to His plan and purpose (Romans 8:28 AMP). Be confident of this truth.

Since goodness is intrinsic to God, all that He does is necessarily good.

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. – Jeremiah 29:11 (NLT)

Beloved, God is good and does good (Psalm 119:68); whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father (James 1:17 NLT); He satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things (Psalm 107:9 NIV).

God has stored up His abundant goodness for those who reverently fear Him and He works for those who take refuge in Him (ref. Psalm 31:19). So, thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!

Amen †

 

Shelley Johnson “The Goodness of God” ©2026 May 12, 2026