In the advertisement department at a newspaper, I sat patiently waiting for the clerk to call me so that I could place an ad and be on my way. There were a couple people ahead of me to be attended to and a number of people in the line to the cashier. I was not expecting this many people to be placing advertisements in the newspaper, having to wait was not factored into my routine for the day.
“Next!”
The person seated beside me got up and went to the clerk’s
cubicle. Almost immediately the vacant seat became occupied. Instinctively, I took
a quick glance and returned to centre. He was an older gentleman who took the
opportunity to start a conversation.
“Good day. Can I introduce you to a friend of mine?”
I had heard that question before, so I knew his intentions. I
don’t know who came up with this one-liner, but after hearing it too many
times, I did not care for it. I must admit that I was tempted to say no but
instead I decided to engage.
How do you start a conversation to tell strangers about Jesus?
Have you ever used that line about a friend of yours?
I appreciate those, like that gentleman, who can easily talk
to strangers about Jesus. His approach may have been overused but he, obedient
to Jesus’ command in Matthew 4:19, was being a “fisher
of men” and used it anyway.
Jesus said to them, “Follow
me! I will teach you how to bring in people instead of fish.” (CEV)
In Acts 1:8, Jesus told His disciples that they will be His
witnesses, not just in their neighbourhoods but “to
the end of the earth” and as
modern day disciples we must do the same, however, approaching perfect
strangers is not for the fainthearted; it is not as easy as some religious
people make you feel it is and not everyone who witnesses for Christ will all
have the same method.
I have never asked anyone if I could introduce them to a
friend of mine, unless it was a friend standing next to me and then I’d simply
say, this is whoever.
God has given each of us different gifts and talents including
different ways of connecting with others.
We have different
gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. –
Romans 12:6 (NIV)
Starting a conversation with a random stranger may not be
your strong point but you may be able to get into people’s lives in another
way.
Your genuine kindness towards a stranger might just be the
perfect conversation starter for you.
Sometimes you may not even have to say a word.
A simple smile or offering an old lady your seat in a
crowded waiting room or giving a generous tip to the young man who delivered
your pizza or to the attendant who filled up your tank at the gas station.
You don’t always have to be the one to start a conversation either,
simply listening with genuine interest can be an ideal opener because there are
hurting people everywhere who just need someone to talk to. I have encountered
so many emotionally and spiritually wounded strangers in banks, at the doctor’s office, on planes, even in
line at the supermarket.
They started a conversation, I listened with sincerity and
it opened the way for me to say,
“Come and meet a man who told
me everything I ever did!” (John 4:29 TLB)
Well, not literally, but you get the idea, right?
Beloved, forcing a conversation can go terribly wrong; if
you are a conversationalist then go ahead and start a conversation outright but
if you’re like me and many others it’s okay to use different ways to get the
message of Jesus to strangers.
I encourage you to seek God’s guidance in this; pray and
trust that He will create opportunities to start a conversation.
Amen †
Shelley Johnson “Start a Conversation” ©2026, January 7,
2026










