Did you know that Abram planned to adopt a son? Yes he did, his name was Eliezer, he was Abram’s servant from Damascus.
Long story short…
War had broken out between enemy nations, as the fighting
escalated, the kings of Sodom and Gomorrah joined the battle. They were
defeated and the enemy absconded with all their possessions, abducted Abram’s
nephew Lot, who lived in Sodom, and held him captive.
When Abram heard of this and that Lot and his possessions
had been taken, he amassed 318 of his trained fighting-machine-men and went
after these out-of-place disrespectful captors.
Abram and his men repossessed all that was taken, and freed
the people, including Lot.
All of this you can read about in Genesis chapter 14.
Upon their return, Melchizedek, the High Priest, gave them
food to eat and pronounced a blessing on Abram, while the king of Sodom,
offered the plunder to Abram as a “thank you” but he refused saying,
“I make a promise to
the Lord, the God Most High, who made heaven and earth. I promise
that I will not keep anything that is yours. I will not keep even a thread or a
sandal strap so that you cannot say, ‘I made Abram rich.’ I will keep
nothing but the food my young men have eaten…” – Genesis 14:22-24 (NCV).
In chapter 15 verse 1 we read that God Himself promises to greatly
reward Abram.
After these things happened,
the Lord spoke his word to Abram in a vision: “Abram, don’t be
afraid. I will defend you, and I will give you a great reward.”
And it is in Abram’s response to God that we learn of his plan
to adopt.
You see, Abram was now several years older than when God
first promised to make him “a great nation” (Genesis 12:2). I am sure you can understand his “frustration”.
Imagine, you’re 20 years old when you receive a Word from
God, you are now 55 years old, and you haven’t seen any sign whatsoever of this
promise coming to pass. You, like Abram, will be wondering if what God has said
will ever happen. You will start to make your own plans.
That’s what Abram did. After God spoke of giving him “a great reward” Abram must have been like, “Well I’ve been waiting all
this time for this promised son but the possibility of Sarai conceiving at her
age, looking a little bleakish. So, my
slave Eliezer from Damascus will get everything I own after I die.” After a slight pause, Abram continued,
“Look, you have given me no son, so a slave born
in my house will inherit everything I have.”
It is at this
point that Abram’s planned adoption was revealed. Abram planned to adopt a son
in the form of his most trusted household servant, Eliezer.
However, “The plans of the heart belong to a person, But the
answer of the tongue is from the Lord.” (Proverbs 16:1 NASB),
in other words, you may make your plan, but the Lord has the final say or the
last word.
And we see just how true that is in Genesis 15:4-5 (NCV) with
God’s reply to Abram,
“He will not be the one to
inherit what you have. You will have a son of your own who will inherit what
you have. Look at the sky. There are so many stars you cannot count them. Your
descendants also will be too many to count.”
How does one respond to that? How did Abram respond to that?
That was a good and proper “Shut your mouth!”
God assured Abram that above all else, He was his great
reward, even if there was no promise.
Abram needn’t be afraid or anxious or concerned, for God was
on his side so he would receive the promised son.
Before this exchange, even though God had spoken to him,
because time was going without any manifestation or fulfilment of the promise, Abram
could not perceive the possible, he was only seeing the impossible. Sarai, on
the flip side of menopause, was way past child-bearing age and Abram was ten
years older than her, so he was not holding out hope.
But God!
Beloved, the Lord says this,
“So also will be the word
that I speak— it will not fail to do what I plan for it; it will do everything
I send it to do.” –
Isaiah 55:11 (GNT)
What has the Lord promised you? For what Word are you
awaiting fulfilment?
“But these things I plan
won’t happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the
vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things
will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single
day!”
The Lord’s words to Habakkuk (2:3 TLB) still apply today.
You must hold on, be patient and trust that what God says He will do He will surely
do.
Abram’s response, in Genesis 15:6, was to believe to be true
what the Lord said to him. “And the Lord accepted
Abram’s faith, and that faith made him right with God.”
This must also be your response – believe God. Only believe!
Other than God’s word, Abram received no tangible evidence
of the son that was promised. Like Abram, stand on the word of the Lord,
exercise your faith, for God keeps His promises (see Psalm 145:13) and remember
always “These two things cannot change: God
cannot lie when he makes a promise, and he cannot lie when he makes an oath.” (Hebrews 6:18 NCV).
Sometimes God’s word does not compute but if you have chosen
to travel along the spiritual path, then you must understand that more often
than not it requires walking by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7). Along
this path, you’ll need to not rely on your fluctuating emotions. It’s tough but
it’s doable.
Beloved, God is not limited as we are. We think that it is
impossible for a 90-year-old woman and a 100-year-old man to have a child, but
God! He transcends the impossible.
Nowadays, with the world seemingly topsy turvy, it’s even
more critical for us to trust God with what appears to be impossibilities. Don’t
go adopting your own plan. If you are frustrated, anxious, confused and
doubtful, go to God. Ask Him to open your eyes to the impossible and activate
your belief.
Amen †
Shelley Johnson “Abram Planned to adopt a Son” © August 30,
2025